Thursday, 19 April 2012

True Friends






        Kenzoku is a term in Japanese that bring the meaning of family, the word kenzoku suggests a bond between people who have made a similar  commitment and who possibly therefore share a similar destiny.

        this also could be applied to friendship, as between friends here will be the elements of commitment and responsibility.This relationship between friend cannot be by strangers who did not involve with them.realise it or not most friendships in this world built on the same basis that is Kenzoku. Time and distance could diminish the strong bond built in the friendship. But in order to have the strong friendship. 

According to kenzoku suggestion:
A true friend always willing to put your happiness before your friendship. friend always bring people on the right track, they will not refrain themselves from telling the truth, maybe it will crack the friendship and this is where trust is needed in friendship. A true friend will not ask you to place the friendship before one principles and family. Also a good friend is always about the good influence in one's, as in socialization peers is always one of the major socialization agents.

But how to get a true friends?. First, one has to become a true friend himself. according to Mahatma Gandhi " be the change you wish to see in the world". Because people tend to attract another people who are at least have the similar character to them. One  do not have to change their principles to make people attracted to them. One have to stick with who he is and at the same time one has to be the friend that he want to have. 







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