Romantic Love

This writing is inspired from Are You a Romantic or a Libertine...?




Love Forever by Alice Walker
I could walk a thousand miles, 
Just to see your perfect smiles,
Although I see you what they don't,
They are missing what I won't,
My love will always stay pure and clear, 
For your the one I do not fear.
Forever and always I'll stay strong,
For you my dear you are my bond.


Through clouds above and the stars beyond,
 My love, the thing I'm always fond,
Will stick with you forever end.
 Our heart and soul will always blend.
 while people might think were playing pretend,
we will stand to defend,
Your in my mind your in my heart,
Nothing can break us apart.


Combined as one,
Our life, our love
Will love forever.


        Romantic love is comes when the chemicals inside the human brain stimulate the person to feel emotional high, exhilaration, passion and elation when he or she with their partner. 'Love is blind' truly describe this  romantic love. People who are in state of mind can overlook  faults, conflicts and abuse. According experts, one expect of the romantic love is infatuation that make the person who involve cannot sustain the that type emotional high after a period of time, it may takes years.

        Generally people will realize that their romantic love has fade away when a sense of disillusionment surface. Partner will become more critical of one another, become more sensitive than they should be. a small problems usually will drag on that sometimes it lead to separation. Romantic love are also known as puppy love. 

        In marriage when it is establish  on the love as their basic base, the sole involvement of love cannot make the marriage happy. But there will be the aspect of respect, trust, generosity and responsibility. In respect there will be consideration, sympathy and empathy towards one another. thus with all the element the family built will in more peaceful without having much trouble ahead.

Jack the Ripper and the Jews

        Jack the Ripper is named over an unidentified serial killer who was actively killed five prostitute with the same killing modus operandi. The killing of the canonical five victims that is Mary Ann Nichols, Annie Chapman, Elizabeth Stride, Catherine Eddowes and Mary Jane Kelly take place  around the Whitechapel district of London in 1888. This series of killing is an unsolved case, where it has made the media during that time actively participated the progress of the Whitechapel murders' serial killer.  With the involvement of media that exaggerate the Jack the Ripper case, it has made the society to be more anxious to know whose the serial killer.

        The chaos created by the media that threaten the peacefulness of the society by publishing the provoking comments from anti-semantic individuals, Scholars and authors. There are several evidence that could have been considered in the case, first, several of murders had been occurred closely to the Jews living area. Second evidence is that one of the early suspect; John Pizer is a Jews, but after investigation he was found innocence because he was not in the area when the murders took place. there were add on the list of the evidence is the suspicion on McNaughton and Swason who are the senior members of  the Metropolitan Police, people suggest that because they are in the position where most of the evidence is in their knowledge that they might have been removed the evidences that is related to the Jews.

        The biggest evidence that the serial killer is the Jews is the writing on the wall  in Goulstan Street where Isaac Kosminski another Jews suspect lived.The writing has been recorded with slightly different with different person     who recoded it. Based on Sir Charles Warren recording the written written is 'The Juwes are the men that will not be blamed for nothing'. But at the end, the writing has to be discarded as it does offer any solid proof that the serial killer was the one of the Jews. Until today the case is still  an unsolved puzzle.

Pursuing Happiness

One could not rate some else happiness, but there is always ways to achieve the happiness. Either the happiness in negative or positive it is the choice of the person to decide, but most people want achive poitive happiness. Sometimes small act could bring smiles to one's face, here is some suggestion on how to pursue the happiness:

1. Spend a few minutes every morning appreciating the sunshine. Forget the bad thing happen yesterday, stay calm and be positive. Be proud of yourself that you have succeed to go through yesterday with ease and smooth. Spend sometime to have some breakfast, enjoy the food. This act may be seem as small things but it could leave a significant marks to start the day.

2. Celebrate other people's success. This habit will teach you to focus on the positive.Even if you are not the one who is the winner it doesn't mean that you are a loser, everything happened for a reason and other options will open for you if you open yourself for them. Always try to accept people's advice on you, take it and try to find where is the key problem and fix it. Celebrating someone else's success is celebrating your own.

3. Find new ways to pursue goals. Refresh yourself, find a new way on how to pursue your dreams. there are many people out there that you can take example from, take their secret on how they pursue their dreams. Along the way of pursuing the dreams you may gains many experience and in the future you will be the master in handling problems.

4. Be loving. Most people think jealousy is the result of love. the fact is no. Jealousy is the result  of possessiveness. Love always about patient and kind. It involve protects, trust,  and hopes.

Of all of the above we could say that, the key of happiness is always about for people to stay positive.

The Effect of Pornography on Children

Today the easy access to pornography have influence the age level of the sites visitors. in a study surveying 471 Dutch teens ages 13 to 18, the researcher found that  the more often young people sought out on-line pornography, the more likely they were to have a "recreational"attitudes towards  sex. To be specific they tend to view sex as a physical activity as same as eating and drinking.

 to this group of teenagers they assume that sex does not have the relationship with feeling and affection . Pornography has also convey the message that the only purpose of women existence is to satisfy the sexual needs. these Orthodox  idea has surfaced back because of what had been portrayed in the pornography movies. Also most of the teenagers had misunderstood that for girls to be attracted to them they have to have the same appearance as the pornography actors- the biceps, tall and strong looking. 

Public are afraid that if this assumption about women continued, it will lead to sexual crime cases, such as rape, molest and paedophile. Although these type of effect are denied by several experts but still the after effect occurred to their children. thus the authority suggest for the parents to give their children the sufficient sex education at home, it may give the insight for the child to think what pornography is all about.

True Friends

        Kenzoku is a term in Japanese that bring the meaning of family, the word kenzoku suggests a bond between people who have made a similar  commitment and who possibly therefore share a similar destiny.

        this also could be applied to friendship, as between friends here will be the elements of commitment and responsibility.This relationship between friend cannot be by strangers who did not involve with them.realise it or not most friendships in this world built on the same basis that is Kenzoku. Time and distance could diminish the strong bond built in the friendship. But in order to have the strong friendship. 

According to kenzoku suggestion:

A true friend always willing to put your happiness before your friendship. friend always bring people on the right track, they will not refrain themselves from telling the truth, maybe it will crack the friendship and this is where trust is needed in friendship. A true friend will not ask you to place the friendship before one principles and family. Also a good friend is always about the good influence in one's, as in socialization peers is always one of the major socialization agents.

But how to get a true friends?. First, one has to become a true friend himself. according to Mahatma Gandhi " be the change you wish to see in the world". Because people tend to attract another people who are at least have the similar character to them. One  do not have to change their principles to make people attracted to them. One have to stick with who he is and at the same time one has to be the friend that he want to have. 

iCloud

        Essentially iCloud was created to enable the Apple users to download music from iTunes and send copies to all other Apple devices in one's possession. iCloud come with every new iPhone, iPad, and iPod.  there is an interesting story behind the establishment of iCloud, the users are concerns that they do not really need iCloud application  because of the fact that music does not need to be bought by iTunes that they already have internet access in their mobile phone. After receiving the feedback several changes have been made, that the application are coming in various usage. Now the application include the access to music, movies, other application, latest photos and etc.there is no syncing required. No management required.


        Apple also give n interesting trade for their customer for signing up for the application which is 5GB of free storage. this application even though it is not give benefits to normal users but it is important for businessmen with the space given if they purchase the application. nevertheless there many of the phone users especially the west country love to use the Apple product doesn't matter even if the application is not beneficial for them because it is somehow has becoming a trend to use the Apple product this include teenagers and even the businessmen. As to some businessmen it is important to appear as rich and well economic men to attract  customer and investors as Apple product symbolize the economic condition of the business man. Simply saying it is one of their strategy.  

The Level of Happiness

     Happiness always an abstract subject to argued.Its depend on the owner of the soul to decide what make one happy either in negative or positive type of happiness. Poor people have their own way of happiness, the same situation applied to the killer who makes killing people as their hobby. But somehow still generally happiness could be levelled into four level:

     The first level of happiness is about the happiness that come from things outside of the own self. The pleasure of this level of happiness is immediate and direct that it involve the fie human senses for example the taste of ice-cream, getting new car as  present, getting free times from workload. this kind of happiness is short and not permanent. They must be always be replaced at times; another ice-cream cone and another car when its broken or out of date. Until the replacements happen one happiness is on hold.   

      The second level of happiness involves one's ego. This type of happiness come when one have a control of himself in self control context; whenever one gain power,  gain attention because of his achievement and become the object of admiration by others. thus when one achieve this type of achievement in the society he will be pleased with himself that he has done a good job. Ego made one confident that he had been accepted by the society.   

      The third level is about the happiness that is always involve people around man and it could never be separated from the happiness of others. For example people had always try to make the world a better place for the not only for themselves but also for other people so they share their money , time, energy and talent for the welfare of other people as it make them happy at the same time. Because living in loneliness is not the best way how to live this life and for one to be happy he need a positive aura around them.

      The previous three level of happiness could not fulfil human desire. Human always need to hold on something that is out of their understanding but at the same time they felt they feel safe having belief in it. They demand for that perfection without any limited form. This why people hold on their faith in God. Those who did not have faith in God treat this faith as an awareness of an unconditional curiosity and creativity of human being. 

  

       Nevertheless the four level of happiness is not a constraint to human being to achieve every detail of it because of the same reason that happiness is different for separate individuals.